Sometimes it seems as if our world has collectively lost its way. People no longer stand by their word or even have basic manners anymore. Some even fail to show any kind of decency to small children, and it can be absolutely heartbreaking for both the child and the parents.
One TikTok mom recently faced an incredible heartache when no one showed up to her daughter’s birthday party, despite RSVPing and saying they would attend. She posted about the situation on TikTok, and the now-viral video shows a sweet little girl in a decorated party room all by herself. The image is honestly soul-crushing, especially for those of us who have kids of our own.
The mom had a big bash planned for her little girl.
TikTok mom @breannamstrong planned a party for the third birthday of her sweet little girl, Avery, and invited 27 of her friends. The quick 12-second clip shows a party room with tables set for a pizza party. The somber music lets the viewer know immediately that the party didn’t end up being what Breanna and Avery expected. The text on the video reads, “We invited 27 kids to Avery’s 3rd birthday party. Not a single one of her friends showed up.”
The little girl is seen enjoying her pizza, not really knowing any better, and then the clip cuts to the remaining pizza being thrown in the trash with a caption that reads, “Money and time wasted.”
The video is brutal to watch.
There isn’t a mom out there who doesn’t want to give their child the world. And of course, we want that world to love our kids. It’s clear that is all Breanna wanted for Avery, but for whatever reason, people didn’t make it to the party that day, and it hurt. It hurt a lot.
Breanna showed a clip of herself in her car with the words, “Literally going to go home and snuggle my babies.” We can feel this in our souls, momma.
Sadly, Breanna and Avery are not alone.
The video has racked up 5.9 million views so far, and the TikTok world has supported Breanna and Avery, with some people sharing their own experiences in similar situations. It’s hard to think about, but this little family isn’t alone.
“This happened to one of my daughters Now I make sure we show up to everyone’s party we are invited to. I never want to see that pain for any child,” one mom commented.
“Oh bless you that happened to both my girls 5 + 6 years at the time shared party, so upsetting, feel for you xx,” another person commented.
Some moms have shared that they make these kinds of things a priority so no child feels this way. “We go to every party we are invited to if we can. Most importantly if we rsvp Yes, we go. You don’t back out unless emergencies.”
“That’s why we ALWAYS go when we are invited x,” another person shared.
Thankfully, little Avery is blissfully unaware of what happened.
Breanna commented that Avery was OK. She’s the one taking it so hard.
“She got everything she wanted. Pizza, frozen cake and jungle gym. She didn’t know any different rather than having fun. Just shattered my heart,” Breanna commented.
There isn’t a parent in the world who wouldn’t feel the same way.
Breanna later posted a darling tribute video to Avery.
The follow-up video features sweet Avery with the song “Happiest Year” by Jaymes Young playing. It is a flashback to Avery’s younger days, and you can’t help but get the feels, especially knowing how hard Breanna’s last few days as a mom have been.
The comment section is filled with good wishes for the toddler.
“Happy birthday, Avery! You’ll do fine without those ungrateful friends. Cheers!” read one comment.
We agree. Avery, you have a great momma who loves you so, so much. And Breanna, you’ve got this. Keep being the amazing mom you are and raising your daughter to love with all of her heart.