A woman found herself in a recurring predicament after several months into her relationship: every time she and her boyfriend went out to eat, particularly when his children were with them, he would ‘forget’ his wallet, leaving her to cover the bill. Over time, this pattern left her feeling used and prompted her to finally address the issue.
This 32-year-old woman had been dating her 35-year-old boyfriend, a father of two young children, for nine months. Their relationship seemed to progress well, except for a troubling pattern that emerged whenever they dined out. It reached a point where their dining habits became a contentious issue, culminating in a significant argument that made her reassess their relationship dynamics.
Driven by a mix of frustration and a need for advice, the woman turned to the Reddit community to seek opinions on whether her response to the situation was appropriate. She detailed her experiences and asked for feedback, which sparked a variety of responses from the community, many of whom criticized her boyfriend’s behavior.
The woman was particularly concerned about the impact of her actions on her boyfriend’s children. She knew they enjoyed their weekly restaurant outings, which had become a cherished ritual. Yet, time and again, her boyfriend would conveniently ‘forget’ his credit card, claiming each time with a sheepish grin that he had left it at home.Initially, the woman was sympathetic and didn’t mind covering the expenses, recognizing that occasional forgetfulness could happen to anyone. However, as these incidents became a predictable occurrence, she noticed the financial strain it was causing her, especially after footing the bill for several expensive meals in a row.