Patrick Swayze’s Widow, 67, Speaks on Being Called ‘Evil’ for Finding New Love after His Death

Since Patrick Swayze’s death, Lisa Niemi has been navigating a world without her beloved husband. Years have passed, and Niemi has found love and happiness once more in the arms of a new man.

Yet, despite so much time having passed and her newfound happiness, this has not diminished the disdain from fans who have berated her for moving on after Swayze’s death.

As Niemi navigated this transition, she encountered criticism from Swayze’s fans. She shared: “There are some pretty rabid Patrick fans who think I’m evil.”

These fans, fiercely loyal to Swayze, struggled to accept Niemi’s new life chapter. Yet, Niemi learned to cope with the criticism, understanding that her journey of love and loss was hers alone to travel.

Niemi’s journey to finding love again was not without its internal struggles. She recalled a story of another woman who remarried just six months after her husband had passed, a notion that initially shocked her. She admitted she thought, “How could you do that?”

However, as time passed, she came to admire the woman’s ability to move forward, saying she ended up thinking, “You go girl!” in admiration of her courage.

A friend’s advice that life was too short to not look for love and too long to spend alone resonated deeply with her, marking the beginning of her path to healing and opening her heart again.

As she opened her mind to new beginnings, Niemi found solace and companionship with Albert DePrisco, a man who had himself experienced heartbreak through a painful divorce.

Their meeting, orchestrated by mutual friends who had known them both for over 30 years, came at a time when both were ready to welcome love back into their lives. Niemi shared, “If we had met before then, it wouldn’t have happened, but after three years, we were about ready.”

Niemi admitted to not realizing the depth of her loneliness until she met DePrisco. She joked, “I’m a buck-up kind of girl. I can take it.” She thought it was grief she was navigating, not loneliness. However, together, she and DePrisco found happiness and a sense of completeness.

Niemi shared that even though she is now with DePrisco, she feels Swayze’s presence daily and maintains a spiritual relationship with him. She gushed, “Every day he’s with me and I feel him there.”

The decision to marry again was not one Niemi took lightly. She was initially hesitant about the idea of remarrying, burdened by the weight of her past and the love she still held for Swayze.

However, a dream about Swayze, in which he embraced her and conveyed his approval for her to marry DePrisco, provided Niemi with the peace and blessing she needed to move forward.

Niemi explained that each time she dreamed of Swayze, he did not speak, but she knew what he was trying to say. In this dream, he embraced her and she knew he was telling her that marrying DePrisco did not negate the relationship they shared.

She disclosed, “I can’t remember exactly, but he was letting me know it didn’t change how we felt about each other.” This moment was pivotal, allowing Niemi to embrace her future with DePrisco without feeling as though she was betraying the love she and Swayze shared.

Reflecting on her relationship with Swayze, Niemi reminisced about their early days. They had contrasting reputations—hers as a “bad girl” and his as a “Casanova”— and they were “meant to stay away from each other.” Yet there was an undeniable connection that suggested they would embark on a big adventure together.

Meeting at sixteen, Niemi could not have predicted their enduring relationship, which would evolve into a long-term marriage filled with love, collaboration, and mutual respect.

She shared insights into Swayze’s thoughts on the film’s success and his reluctance to star in a sequel, highlighting his commitment to integrity and quality in his work.

She said he felt that where they had left the movie was perfect. Niemi expressed her hopes for the upcoming sequel to honor the original while finding its unique voice and inspiration.

Swayze’s zest for life and passion for his craft left an indelible mark on Niemi and the world. From iconic film moments to personal memories of their time together, Niemi cherishes every aspect of their shared life.

Despite his death occurring many years ago, Swayze remains a constant presence in Niemi’s heart, a testament to the depth of their connection.

Niemi’s commitment to Swayze’s legacy extends beyond her personal memories, as she continues to support the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network in his honor.

Her involvement in the fight against pancreatic cancer is driven by a desire to continue Swayze’s battle and to offer hope to others facing this devastating disease.

Through early detection and research, Niemi aims to make a difference in the lives of those affected by pancreatic cancer, honoring Swayze’s memory by fighting for a cause that was close to both their hearts.

Niemi shared that although she didn’t think there was anything that she didn’t miss about Swayze, she was grateful for the life they lived together and the marriage they shared.

As Niemi embraces her new chapter with DePrisco, she carries forward the love and lessons learned from her life with Swayze and often celebrates the life they lived together. She even shared a rare photo of him, his mother, and herself on her Instagram page, as previously reported.

Niemi’s heartwarming caption spoke about Patsy’s powerful impact on her dance students and mentioned how people recognized Swayze because he was Patsy’s son. She also highlighted how proud the dance teacher was to be the “Dirty Dancing” star’s mother.

The public praised Niemi for the picture she shared and took notice of the striking resemblance between Swayze and his mom. One fan gushed, “This is a great photo 🥰🥹 thanks for sharing. He was so like his mam!”

Similarly, another fan said, “Lisa, it is so special to share with us and keep them in the present with your memories xo.” Someone else expressed, “Thank you for continuing to share Patrick’s memory with us ❤️.”

Last year, Niemi opened up about her late husband’s legacy and life in an interview. Of Swayze, who sadly died from pancreatic cancer, Niemi disclosed, “He did not want to become the poster boy for cancer [..] He had such a huge, full life and so many things that he did. But he had such a huge heart. We were married for 34 years.”

Niemi also discussed how hard Swayze fought his illness and how she felt having to witness him going through an incredibly challenging time. On this, she shared, “He really was a hero. I saw the man I knew he always wanted to be, which was courageous, truly courageous, humble, loving, determined, strong.

Lisa Niemi and her beloved jeweler spouse, whom she met through mutual friends, tied the knot in 2014 and will soon celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary.