- Ryan O’Neal from “Love Story” died on Friday, December 8, 2023.
- The actor had four children, but not all had a good childhood.
- Some of his children endured beatings and went without food.
Ryan’s cause of death was not mentioned, but the actor had previously opened up about some of his health issues. In 2012, Ryan was diagnosed with prostate cancer, and in the late ’90s, he survived leukemia.
Ryan O’Neal photographed in 1965 | Source: Getty Images
The actor was a father of four, but his relationship with his children was not always smooth. Despite having the same father, the O’Neal children did not all have the same childhood, as some had it more difficult than others. Here is a glimpse into the lives of Ryan’s children.
Tatum O’Neal
Ryan was first married to Joanna Moore, and together, they had two children: a daughter named Tatum in 1963 and a son named Griffin in 1964. Their marriage ended, and the couple finalized their divorce in 1967.
Ryan O’Neal and Joanna Moore with their children Griffin and Tatum photographed in 1965 | Source: Getty Images
However, life was not easy for Tatum and her brother. The siblings lived with their mother and confessed that there would be days when they were not fed. In addition to this, Tatum also endured beatings. She revealed that Moore was dating a 15-year-old who would beat her.
Ryan O’Neal and his daughter Tatum O’Neal on the set of “Paper Moon” in 1973 | Source: Getty Images
Ryan O’Neal and his daughter Tatum O’Neal on the set of “Paper Moon” in 1973 | Source: Getty Images
Ryan eventually came to his children’s rescue. He had his daughter act alongside him in the film “Paper Moon,” which propelled her toward immense success. Her performance was so good that she was awarded an Oscar at only nine years old.
Ryan O’Neal and Tatum O’Neal on the set “Paper Moon” 1973 | Source: Getty Images
Ryan O’Neal and his daughter Tatum O’Neal on the set of “Paper Moon” in 1973 | Source: Getty Images
When she reached her teenage years, Tatum felt that her father did not know what to do with her anymore, leaving her feeling displaced and insecure about herself. “I started to not know where to turn,” she added.
Ryan O’Neal with his daughter Tatum in Mexico in 1980 | Source: Getty Images
Tatum O’Neal at the Oscar Awards in Los Angeles in 1974 | Source: Getty Images
With time, the father and daughter tried to work on their relationship. They met up for lunch once and spent two hours talking. Tatum said Ryan apologized, “He’s all I have in terms of family, and I needed him in my life. My dad was absolutely everything to me,” she expressed.
Tatum O’Neal photographed in Buckinghamshire, England in 1977 | Source: Getty Images
Tatum ONeal photographed in 1970 | Source: Getty Images
It was heartbreaking for him to realize that Tatum did not have anyone to rely on after her mother died. “A lot of harsh things were done.” But now, we’re starting over and not looking back,” he emphasized.
Griffin O’Neal and Tatum O’Neal photographed 1977 | Source: Getty Images
In 2020, Tatum and her father were seen together in a family photo. Now that Ryan has passed, the actress is glad that he left with their relationship mended. “I’ll miss him forever, and I feel very lucky that we ended on such good terms,” she said.
Griffin O’Neal
Griffin O’Neal is Tatum’s brother, who has also spent most of his life trying to escape the turbulence in his family. He reckoned that the biggest contributor was the abuse of alcohol and drugs.
Ryan O’Neal and his son Griffin in 1965 | Source: Getty Images
Griffin was exposed to a variety of drugs from a young age. He watched his mother struggle with addiction and his sister, and eventually, he found himself stuck with the same problem.
Ryan O’Neal and his son Griffin O’Neal in New York in 1970 | Source: Getty Images
Tatum O’Neal photographed in 1970 | Sourced: Getty Images
Griffin spent a lot of time in rehabilitation centers. By the time he graduated high school, he had already been in rehab three times. However, he eventually came out of addiction stronger.
Griffin O’Neal and Farrah Fawcett in New York in 1982 | Source: Getty Images
Rima Uranga and Griffin O’Neal Beverly Hills in 1991 | Source: Getty Images
When he was 16 years old, Ryan reportedly punched him in the face when he tried to help his brother Redmond fight addiction. The father of four was even arrested for assaulting Griffin with a firearm. Their relationship did not get better because, in 2015, the father and son had reportedly not spoken in nine years.
Patrick O’Neal
The same year that Ryan divorced Moore, he married his second wife, Lee Taylor-Young, and together they had a son, Patrick, but their union ended soon after.
Patrick started his career as an actor, where he appeared in films such as “Die Hard,” “Wild Dog” and “Bliss.” But after not getting cast for a show, where he had made it to the third call back, Patrick knew that his career in Hollywood was over.
Leigh Taylor-Young and Patrick O’Neal photographed in 1990 | Source: Getty Images
At first, he thought he would venture into producing, but he was offered a job as a broadcaster, and that was when everything clicked. He confessed that he loved sports and watching ESPN as a child, and after landing that gig, he decided to make a complete career change.
Patrick O’Neal in Beverly Hills in 2014 | Source: Getty Images
Patrick O’Neal in Los Angeles in 2015 | Source: Getty Images
Redmond O’Neal
Ryan met Fawcett while she was still married to actor Lee Majors, but they ended up sharing one of the strongest connections. The couple never married but welcomed a son, Redmond, in 1985.
However, Redmond is also said to have a severe drug problem. His half-sister Tutam said, “I love him, but I have never seen a more scary side of addiction.” His father was also candid about his son’s drug abuse. Ryan emphasized that despite Redmond’s privilege, his addiction stood in the way of many things.
According to Ryan, his son has been in 13 rehabilitation centers. In fact, Ryan did not see his son as privileged. “He’s had a terrible life,” he added. The actor reiterated that Redmond had never had a car or license and had spent most of his life on the street or in and out of prison.
Although Ryan’s relationship with his children had its ups and downs, the actor still played an important role in their lives, and the O’Neal children will hold on to the fond memories they have of their father.